I am off on a RCI western Carribean cruise. At the Port my wife and I wish to do some excursions, such as the zip wire in Haiti. We will be putting our two boys in the childrens club whilst we do the trip. Once finshed can we just get a tender back to the ship and join our boys or do the tenders only travel back at certain times. In relation to the formal evening events can we put the boys in the child club or would you recommend taking them (they are 3 & 5) We would love to go, but we are very mindful of the boys being away from us to much.