Hi I am new to this forum and have just read this post with some alarm.
My daughter is disabled and has been with us on a couple of cruises.
First what happens if all the people in the staterooms are genuine? As they should be!
Second if you are a wheelchair dependant person you probably will not get into the bathroom of a normal stateroom. The step up and size will make sure of that.
Third will your wheelchair go through a normal stateroom door and if so will there be room to store it and charge up your batteries.
I would not think of taking my daughter on a cruise without a garanteed Accessible Stateroom.