My husband and I are going to take our first cruise this spring. Probably in the Carribean or Mexico. We are both late 30s and would like a cruise with few children (I have children and work with children and just want a break) and not a lot of loud drunken partying. I'd also like good food and I don't want to feel like I'm staying in a floating Motel 8. However, there is always budget to consider. Any suggestions?