Please reassure your future husband, that he will definitely NOT be receiving the lowest level of service! You can have an absolutely wonderful experience never stepping foot in the "Specialty" restaurants. The food and service is fine in the main dining rooms. Think of it like checking into a five star hotel and getting absolutely wonderful service and accommodations, but you know there is a "Presidential Suite" on the top floor. Most of us never even consider that as an option and have a wonderful experience. Even at an exclusive resort you expect to have to buy your drink at the pool, pay for your spa treatment or spend money in the casino - but these are all choices that one can choose to forego.