If you're thinking "elegant', Disney is not the right choice. There is probably no better cruise line for the kids, but elegant it is not.
I would second Lisa's vote for Holland America, especially their smaller ships; plenty of activities for the kids, elegance and traditional feel--all in one ship. The cuisine is outstanding and there is only one alternative restaurant, so you are not constantly paying extra for food for which you already paid.
Last edited by f-mattox; 06-26-2011 at 02:10 PM.