This is my first cruise and I'm not really sure what to expect. My husband and I are not really adventurous, we are both looking to just relax. This is my first vacation from work in about 3 years so I want to have a good time and just be lazy for a week :). I have a very general idea of cruising just from word of mouth but I really don't know how much I should set aside for the cruise. We definitely want to do a couples massage and I might do one or two spa services (mani/pedi). We are big soda drinkers, and we like to enjoy alcohol every once in a while but we don't drink a whole lot. Any advice would help a lot, especially in the money department! We want to have a nice relaxing vacation, maybe catch a few shows but we don't want to break the bank!