Don't worry about it, Barb. Sometimes the way something is written is misinterpreted when you meant it in another way. And sometimes external events can affect a response - such as my reply to you yesterday just as my favorite NFL teams were getting beaten and I was not happy.
Windows on cruise ships are usually symmetrical so I'd say there will be no added windows on one cabin over another. Comfort level is not going to be affected by whether one cabin is square or the other is longer and narrower. A piece of furniture may be in a different location. A bed may be sitting "north/south" instead of "east/west". It just isn't something I'd dwell on. You don't spend much time in the cabin anyway.
I'd be more concerned with the cabin's location in relation to other venues on the ship.