My girlfriend is pressuring me to take a cruise (1st time for both) and I am having some reservations. My concerns are particularly relating to dress codes for meals and deck wear. As a frequent windjammer cruiser I like the very casual dress codes there and am not comfortable with the thought of a shirt and tie for dinners. Are my fears unfounded? Is seating pr
-determined or do you get a choice of when and with whom to dine?