If you've been planning for 34 years, what do you need us for!!! Seriously, I congratulate you on your long marriage and your finally getting to take a cruise. I hope it is a great trip for both of you.
I booked a co-worker on the Conquest last year - in fact I think it was the same week as your cruise - and he had a wonderful time. Since it is a honeymoon cruise - albeit a deferred one - you must make a reservation for a special dinner at The Point, which is the specialty restaurant. This costs extra ($25 per person), and I usually eschew the extra-fee eating on ships, but in your case you need to do it. My co-worker did and he raved about the food and service.