Hi KyCruiser, welcome to Cruise-Chat. There are 2 members on our board that sailed on her inaugural cruise. She sounds fantastic! You'll be sailing before we will, lucky
The one thing from their revues that stood out to me, was the ice bar. Their review are in this section. Your wife is right, you're going to be hooked on cruising-guaranteed! The two times we were in Tortola, we did sail/snorkels. Both the sailing and kayaking excursions sound fantastic. I, personally, would opt for the sailing because that's something I love doing. Labadee is a private island, so save that for a beach day. Can't help you on Murano, but maybe Jan or Sandy can. Best wishes for a fantastic cruise, and once again, welcome aboard!