Tom & Mary - thank you for contributing your cruise experiences and time to this forum. I have read through the entire site and your reviews many times. I find your input to provide a calming feeling or effect on the nerveousness of planning our very first cruise. [

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We have just booked our first cruise. We are headed to the western caribbean on RC's Voyager of the Seas in April. We are celebrating our 10 year wedding anniversary (without the kids) and are a bit overwhelmed with all the information we are getting about cruises.
I have many questions, but what I want to hear most about is how do you find out what's going on during the cruise. Is there some kind of orientation for first timers?
We don't know what dinner seating to pick, what attire is required for dinner, what to pick from the port excursions, etc. How do you choose?
Any advice you can give would be greatly appreciated.