I really agree - treating the crew members who serve us as people, not robots, and being nice and friendly to them usually brings out the best in them. I have had some super stewards and waiters on all different cruise lines, and maybe some of that is because of the way I treat them - at least I would hope I act toward them the way I would want to be treated, were I in their position! I know people who treat folks in service jobs as lower class, and it really bugs me when they do. (Maybe because I have done my time as a waitress in the past?

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