Dave- ok...I'll post it on the "Lido Deck", as my review. In Hong Kong we are doing that alone, in Vietnam we are doing a small tour group. We are going to where my dad was in Vietnam, in Bong Son. Our trip has really helped my dad start to heal his bitterness over the war. He is so bitter, I was even afraid to tell him we were going there. I have learned more about my dad's war experiences these past few months, than I have my whole life, and I am 42. He is hopefully on the road to dealing with his war issues. I am hoping that 2009, will be the start of my dad healing himself, and our family.